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I ran out of empathy a year ago. I want nothing to do with masked-up zombies.

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I found faith in the pandemic. It reminds me the search for objective truth matters, that nature is still more powerful than mere humans, and has humbled me to the reality many things are beyond human control, and mass phobia that has never been justified by actual outcomes for anyone under 65 that isn’t morbidly obese is beyond my individual control. It also reminds me that changing the world isn’t the goal, changing one mind, or helping one person, at a time not only helps that person, but it also keeps the world from changing me.

While we chose our children’s private Christian school for the top academics, I have found the school’s rejection of wokeness (CRT and gender ideology), as well as their commitment to keep kids at the center of the policy and learning in person, to be of an even greater value than the top academics and STEM labs where kids as young as 5 get to experiment hands on and learn to love actual science. The school lives it’s values in a way far too many churches and other religious schools have quickly abandoned over the last couple of years.

In their weekly Bible versus I have begun to rediscover my faith. The first one my daughter had this year was Ephesians 4:25 “Therefor each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body." Both kids have had numerous versus on the importance of truth, and the dangers of falsehoods. I find them comforting.

Humans have done crazy things throughout history, and stories thousands of years old, from a book written over thousands of years, acknowledging the capability of human mass hysteria while reminding people to seek and speak actual truth, and to stay grounded in actual truth, brings me a great deal of peace. It eases my shock at how phobic, hysterical, cruel, and ridiculous so many I know have become.

It’s not to say SARS-CoV-2 doesn’t exist - it does. There are outliers and I have full recognition I am as likely, or unlikely, as any other healthy 39 year old woman to be one. My husband is as likely, or unlikely, as any healthy 42 year old man to be one. Still, we are far more likely to die in a car accident. Our kids are more likely to die hitting their head in the bathtub or shower (and I actually know several people, including a child, who died that way).

As far as empathy, I have never found lying about health to be a super empathetic thing to do. It’s not that I don’t “care” what others think, it’s that actual outcomes matter more than hurt feelings (mine or anyone else’s). Seeing children terrified of a cold is heartbreaking. Watching parents “vaccinate” their already immune young children shocking. These things are shocking because they are actually harmful in reality yet the justification for causing the harm is based entirely in falsehoods.

I have found the strength to stay firm in truth and reality by having some faith - faith this too shall pass, faith the truth will eventually set us free, faith that standing firm in truth will help us navigate this crazy world. Faith that there is still objective truth and it still matters. 🤷‍♀️

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