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I remember a boy I met at the chatrooms long ago. He was 15 and the oldest of a household of I think, 5 kids. One day he wanted a cookie but was not allowed, and when he took it, his dad hit him so hard he hit his head and had to have numbers of stitches. He asked me why do my parents have us? They don't love us. A few days later his dad hit him again and he fell against the table corner. After that he could no longer type properly. A mutual friend who knew him personally said he had been damaged for life. I think indeed, that lots of parents do not really love their children. Do we even know what love is?

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Can confirm. I personally know what it's like to have parents who are so lost in their own worlds that 'Love' is an alien concept. As a poster child for boomer parent narcissistic abuse I vowed I would never treat my children as crutches for my weak insecure ego.

I also believe most parents don't love their kids...in VT they lined them up like sheep to get the jab. Weak and dumb...all of them.

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unfortunately I think you are right. Although my parents are good people and gave me what they could, in medical subjects they were extremely naive too. Mom would call the doctor every time I cleaned my nose or coughed once. Result, my immune system down to the ground. A lot of this could be helped with better education, but it seems that too got worse. As to food, I see parents and schools stuff kids with donuts, corn flakes and all kind of 'breakfast food' that is in fact poison. Very little parents look into jabs. May be that changes now ! And lots of parents are never home. Children have to educate themselves. Left to a grandparent at best, more often in a creche. Or with a key, or on the street (saw that in our neigborhood, kids could not even get into the house)

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That is so awful. There is something inherently missing in parents who actively do not love their own offspring. They are defective. I know of no greater love than that which I have for my children. I would die for them, I would kill for them and I would also do the same for my husband.

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